“When God Comes Calling”
Pastor Randy Butler
How does God interact with human beings? In what ways do our lives and God’s divine life intersect? There are as many answers to such questions as there are examples from the Bible. God calls upon Noah to build an ark, asks Abraham to leave his home, presses Moses into service against his will, God and Moses arguing all the way. God leads the people of Israel by fire and cloud, God anoints David, sets afire the minds and hearts of the prophets to speak God’s will to people and power, and yet speaks in the silence to Elijah. God shows up in dreams to others. God encounters Saul on the road to Damascus, knocks him off his feet. And God sometimes just comes calling.
That’s what happens with a young woman from Nazareth in Galilee named Mary. Her life is good, she is engaged to be married to Joseph. Everybody is looking forward to the big wedding day. And then God comes calling, completely shaking up her plans and dreams for her future with Joseph. So sometimes when God calls the result is totally disruptive. We would like to think that when God enters our lives that we would feel love and peace, and sometimes we do but often it is just the opposite. We are totally caught off guard and our comfortable lives are disrupted, interrupted by God. Father William McNamara says “God is not necessarily nice. God is not a buddy, or an uncle or a mascot. God is an earthquake.” Well, that’s what Mary discovers. She is being hit with an earthquake, what is really an unwanted pregnancy.
So what we learn about the way God interacts with us is that God takes initiative with us, makes contact, initiates contact. God sends an angel to Mary, and what she hears is confusing, not really comforting. “Greetings favored one!” says the angel, “The Lord is with you.” And Mary’s first response is confusion. The text says she is perplexed, and indicates that she is fearful. That is often the response we have when God comes calling – fear. And that is true for Mary. She is afraid, and perplexed.
Now at this point I might just say, and maybe you too, might just say, “OK, I’m outta here. This is too strange. And too demanding.” But Mary doesn’t do that. She hangs in there with this strange visitor. Sometimes in the big life changing events of our lives we just look for the door, the nearest escape. But Mary ponders the meaning of these things. She ponders what sort of divine greeting and interruption this is.
What does happen when our lives are interrupted? How do we respond when we lose a loved one – a spouse, a child, or a parent? How do we handle the earthquake of divorce or the loss of a job? These are among the major disruptive events of our lives. We may want to run, but Mary encourages us to stay and ponder, and learn and grow from these major events. When our family was disrupted by mental illness in a family member I wanted to run. But I am learning very slowly to ponder, and pray and learn how God is in this, how the love and grace of God comes in the disruption.
Mary doesn’t reject the angel Gabriel, or tell him to leave. But when the angel tells the whole story and her role in it, she does have a few questions. And that is fair enough. When God comes calling questions are allowed, even doubts are OK. “How can this be,” she wonders, “Since I am a virgin.” Some of us are raised to believe that we should never question God, or have doubts. Any reading of the Psalms of the Old Testament will put that notion to rest. “How long O Lord, will you forget me forever?” - Psalm 13. “My God, My God why have you forsaken me?” - Psalm 22. “Rouse yourself, Why do you sleep O Lord, Awake do not cast us off forever!” – Psalm 44. And that’s just a few examples. Doubts and questions drive us deeper into engagement with God. In the book of Genesis, the patriarch Jacob doesn’t settle for polite churchy conversation but wrestles with God on the bank of the Jabbok River, Jacob and God getting muddy and bloody. That’s how God and Jacob interact. And Jacob emerges with blessing and promise.
So Mary’s question is reasonable enough, and the angel offers a very compassionate and helpful answer. He does three things. First he offers some explanation. He says, “This will happen by the Holy Spirit, who will embrace and overshadow you, and the child coming from this union will be holy. He will be the son of God.” So there is discussion about this. Mary is not expected to just accept this without some explanation. I will say it again, when God comes calling questions are allowed. Second, the angel refers Mary to Elizabeth. It’s like the angel is saying, “I know this is a lot to take in. Go talk to Elizabeth. Something similar is going on with her. She too is pregnant by unusual circumstances. She is now in her sixth month and you need to talk with her.”
I really like this. There are people in our lives who are a little further down the road in the “when God comes calling” journey. They have experience to share, wisdom to pass on. They can share what they did when this happened to them. God does not leave us alone in the big events of life. God provides friends in the faith, fellow travelers, spiritual directors, counselors. Some of us have favorite aunts or uncles. I have been grateful for my sister who connects with my youngest daughter in a really helpful way. So Mary has Elizabeth and Elizabeth has Mary too. They have each other.
And third, the angel offers a final assurance: “I know this is a big deal, but remember Mary, nothing will be impossible with God.” We need to hear that sometimes. After all the questions and the doubts and conversations we just need to hear that God has got this. Whatever is happening in our world, whatever disease plagues us, whatever political upheaval we endure, it may not seem like it, but nothing is impossible with God.”
We are not left hanging when God comes calling. We are offered explanation, directed toward others who we can talk with, and we are assured that God can do this.
And finally then there comes acceptance. Agreement, acquiescence, surrender to God who comes calling. The agreement and conformity of our will with the divine will. And of course this is one of Mary’s finest moments. And it can be our finest moment as well, the moment of true freedom – when we stop resisting God’s will as it comes in the form of disruption or pain and suffering and sorrow, and we move toward acceptance. When we who are so willful finally become willing to accept God’s mysterious ways. “Here am I, the servant of the Lord; let it be with me according to your word.”
Now we are not so sure we like words like surrender and acquiescence. But it is a critical moment in the life of faith, to surrender to the higher power of God. And perhaps it helps to know that this surrender to God is not resignation. Acceptance is not a giving up, or giving in. It is a giving to God and God’s purposes, an offering of ourselves to God for something greater. In our Old Testament text, God told David to cease his own building project for the sake of God’s bigger building project: “Moreover the Lord declares to you that the Lord will make you a house. Your house and your kingdom shall be made sure forever before me, your throne shall be established forever.” And God called upon Mary for a big task and disruptive task, and when she finally accepted she surrendered to the grand purposes of God for the redemption of the world – she would bear the Son of God, in the line of David, who would reign forever – of his kingdom there would indeed be no end.
God intervenes, comes calling in our lives for some greater purpose. Greater than we could ever imagine, if we will accept it. C.S. Lewis has a wonderful little parable in his book Mere Christianity. He says, “Imagine yourself a house. God comes in to rebuild that house. At first, perhaps, you can understand what he is doing. He is getting the drains right and stopping the leaks in the roof and so on: you knew that those jobs needed doing and so you are not surprised.
But presently he starts knocking the house about in a way that hurts abominably and does not seem to make sense. What on earth is He up to? The explanation is that He is building quite a different house from the one you thought of – throwing out a new wing here, putting on an extra floor there, running up towers, making courtyards. You thought you were going to be made into a decent little cottage: but he is building a palace. He intends to come and live in it himself.”
The disruption of God’s call upon our lives is sometimes painful, like our spiritual house being knocked about and we wonder what on earth is God up to? God is indeed up to something - something wonderful for the world and for you and me.